Helpful Articles About The Divorce Process Written by Judge Anne Kass

Helpful Articles About The Divorce Process
Guest Author, Judge Anne Kass, - a retired District Judge of Albuquerque, New Mexico

Editors Note: The divorce information on understanding the legal aspects of coming apart as well as the messed up emotional turmoil involved in the tearing a part process, especially those involving children of divorce, is covered in these divorce articles better then any other I have ever read anywhere.

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To read about all 93 Judge Anne Kass divorce articles with information and advice, which will help you better understand the legal divorce and the interwined emotional aspects, simply continue to scroll down and click on the selected divorce article in the list below.

Kids Interests and Custody Issues

Kids reluctant to visit the Ex?
·    A Child Cries; Parents Misinterpret
·    Adoption Secrecy Damages Children
·    Car Payments vs Child Support
Damage Parents Wrought
·   Chameleon Kids
·   Child Custody And School
·   Childs Best Interest Are What Matter,
·    Children Lose When A Divorced Parent Is Forced Out
·    Children of Warring Parents Descend Into Hellish Words
·    Children's Parents Rights Often Conflict
·    Counselors Can Find Out What Kids Really Want
·    Court Guardian Protects Child's Interests During Parents' Divorce
Learn Co-Parenting
·    Crisis
·   Custody To Mothers: Get Both Sides Of The Story
·    Custody Cases Not As Simple As Good vs Bad
·    Custody Was Legal, But It Wasn't Right
·    Dad's Sacrifice In Custody Battle Spares His Son
·    Divided Child Custody A Mistake
·    Divorce Pair Should Agree On Discipline
·    Divorced Parent Squabbling Can Take Toll On Children
·    Divorcing Parents Can Give Their Kids Second-Best
·    Divorcing Parents May Use Pets to Control Children's Decisions
·    Divorcing Parents Urged Not To Change Child's School
·    Don't Bad-Mouth Divorcing Parents In Front Of Children; Criticizing a Parent Also Hurts Kids
On Choosing a Parent
·    Don't Give Children A Sophie's Choice
·    Don't Let Divorce Mar Kids Schooling
·    "Equal Time" Hard For Parents, Kids
·    Healthy Parents Should View Their Divorce As Incurable
·    Interstate-Custody Rule Relieves Angst
·    It Doesn't Pay To Lie To Children
·    Doesn't Pay To Lie To Children
·    Judges, Not Kids, Decide Custody
·    Kids Needs First In Custody Cases
·    Law Separates Issues Of Child Support, Visits
·    Lawyers For Kids Might Ease Divorce Wars
·    Missed Parent Visits Are Hurtful
·    New Traditions Ease Kids' Pain In Divorce
·    Parental Custody Is Sometimes Out Of Joint?
Robbing your children of childhood
·    "Parentified" Children Suffer Later
·    Parenting Classes Helped This Dad
·    Parents Make Custody Choices, Custody is Decided Long Before Divorce
·    Parents Teach Children To Hold Grudges
·    Poverty Makes Child Support Hopeless
·    Putting Parents In Child's Shoes
·    Religion Is A Worry For Kids In Divorce
·    Smart Divorced Parents Turn Opinion Differences Into Unified Disipline
·    Split Parents Learn Both Are Often Right
·    Standard Of Living Can Come Between Spoiled Brat Children

Mistakes and issues that make divorce worse

·    Abandonment A Divorce Issue
·   Anger Makes Divorce, Litigation More Difficult
Dangers of off again on again divorce
·    Behavior
·    Blame Game Won't Solve Anything
Money Crisis: Goes with "Divorce".
· Breaking Up Is So Costly To Do
·    Broke, Divorcing And So Very Self Centered
·    Courtesy Can Prevent Divorce Disaster
Consider the "downside" of dating before divorce being final.
· Dating During Divorce Isn't Wise,
· Disobeying Court Order Leads To More Trouble
· Divorce Can Force Home Sale
· Divorce Cases, Lacking A Right Or Wrong, Toughest For Judges
· Divorce Counseling Eases The Pain
· Divorce Should Be A Couple's Last Resort - Not It's First
·    Divorcing Parents Need To Know That Divorce Changes Their Relationship To One Another; Divorce Does Not End It
·    Don't Let Divorce Fail Too
·    Fees, Emotional Cost Of Going To Divorce Court Are Enormous
·    Good Divorce Lawyers Tell You Bad News
·    Legal Answer Can Make Divorce Much Worse
·    Legal Answers Not Always Solutions, Arithmetic Often Beats Legal Answers
·    Lying In A Divorce Is Wrong -- And Illegal
·    Proving Fault Won't Make Divorce Easier
·    There Are Ways To Cut Legal Fees
·    Turnabout Isn't Fair Play In Divorce
·    Two Rights Make Decision Tougher
·    Vengeance Harms Both Parties During A Divorce

Lowering the damage

·   Anger Can Block Divorce Recovery
Spousal Abandonment
·   Avoid
·    Case Pits Individualism vs Community
·    Cut Legal Fees With Honesty
Dealing with the ex, chose dignified or ugly
·   Disappear
·    Discipline With Teaching, Love
·    Domestic Violence Batterers
·    Don't Expect A Quick Fix From Marriage Counseling
·    Drug Abusers Delude Selves
·    Fair Alimony Is Aim Of Project
·    "Good Providers" Can Be Rotten At Marriage
·    Honor And Honesty Is Refreshing To See
The "Evil Other".
·   Human
Make Counseling work????
·    Marriage
Hiring a mutual neutral evaluator
·   Neutrals
·    New Fairy Tale Could Explain About 'Happily Every After
·    No Counseling Is More Costly
Legal discussion of going beyond the theory
·   No Fault
·    Second Marriage Can Be As Difficult As The First One
·    Yes, You Can Get Along With Your Ex
·   Wife Beaters Need Our Compassion

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